HMS Titanic again?
Recently, I had a chat with my brother who's now settled in Boston. He's planning to get married end of this year. Not exactly a springtime wedding but there were just too many logistics complications, his fiancee's job and my dad's activity schedule being a couple.
Anyway, we got to talking about his plan for a family and that's when I learnt that he and his fiancee aren't sure if they want to have one. It caught me by surprise so I asked why.
His answer was quite blunt. With all the things going on in the world, he's not sure if the kids will have a future.
At the root of his pessimism are a few things. He thinks the world will be in a state of war for another 2-3 generations and it will have a very unpleasant ending. What if his kids get drafted to war, he worries. (We have one friend drafted to Iraq and another to Israel plus a few still serving in the US National Guard.)
He also thinks that in 50 years time, the climate will arrive at a life-threatening point. And because of climate change, in as short as a couple of hundred years, instead of fighting wars over territory and ideology, people will fight over food and water. And it will be nastier because its driven by desperation and not ideals, aided by new age weapons.
All in all, he doesn't believe humans can last another 4-5 generations and feels that bringing more bodies will only create needless suffering.
I told him his doomsday predictions aren't new. Even during the time of the Pharaohs and Chinese emperors, amidst the intense brutality, many people didn't expect that we (humans) would last another millenia. Yet here we are.
But what he said next did strike home a point. Those eras didn't have to grapple with the greatest game changer of all - the cataclysm caused by an overheated planet.
I can sympathize. When I look at the IPCC data on climate change and the planet's climate history, I too have a bad feeling at the pit of my stomach. Naturally the league of nations will be all positive about it. You can't say there isn't much we can do without creating massive global chaos.
But I had the last say of course - my good old Butterfly effect theory. What if one of his kids becomes the savior that man had been waiting for? Not a savior of the religious variety but maybe as an inventor of a technology that can save the world?
Even Einstein's parents never thought that far when they raised him up. Is he so sure that his kid - or any kid born in the next 100 years for that matter - won't be the one that might change the course of history?
Yeah, its a long shot I know. I guess the good news is, he and his fiancee are still unsure. I do understand where he's coming from but I also know that not having a family would also remove one big reason why people get married. Maybe they found a way around that. I really hope so.
I guess I now understand why visions of the HMS Titanic come to mind whenever I watch the news these days.
p.s. Smile and take it easy. I dunno about you but I got plenty to be happy about, Titanic or not.